Sometimes you just click with a cam girl. She’s fantastic. She’s sexy, funny, pretty, totally into the things you like, and she’s got a great energy about her that means that it’s always a party when she checks in. She puts on a fantastic show and you decide that you want her to remember you as much as you remember her, even though she’s the only cam girl you go to on a popular sex cam site with thousands of members. It’s not love, but you do want to be her favorite. There are a lot of things that you can do to stand out to a performer. Pick the ones that resonate with you, her, and the way she runs her chats or sessions and get down to winning her favor one encounter at a time.
Give a Lot of Feedback and Encouragement
Cam girls are used to empty compliments. What they aren’t used to is specific feedback on their work. They work hard to be sexy for you. She’s used to hearing about how great her body is, and how it drives men crazy when she twerks/bends over/licks her lips/bounces her breasts. What she doesn’t hear is compliments on her stamina, or her confidence. She needs to be told that she’s a great performer and you noticed the effort she put into making it look effortless. These are the kinds of compliments that will get you noticed. Don’t blend into the crowds.
Don’t Try to Police Her Chat
It’s tempting to try to be her white knight. Even on one of the very popular sites for sexy cam sessions you occasionally get a rude man who doesn’t know how to conduct himself politely. A casual observer might think that this is the time to jump to her rescue. Tell that guy exactly where he can shove his rudeness and tell him to get out of the chat before things escalate. It sounds like the time to be a hero! However, it’s really not. These cam girls are used to handling their own problems themselves and you’re not the boss of her chat. She is. If the other customers see that she can’t control one rude man in her chat, they’re going to lose respect for her. Besides, she actually has the ability to ban people she doesn’t want to see from the chat itself. When you posture, that’s all you’re doing; starting a fight. You know the internet saying “Don’t feed the trolls”? When you scream at another guy on a cam site to get the hell out of her chat, you’re feeding the troll. You’re taking even more attention off of her sexy performance and giving it to some rude guy who wouldn’t know what to do with a beautiful woman if he ever met her in person. Don’t distract from her; let her handle her own chat, and encourage other men to do the same. You’ll look like you respect her, and that will get you noticed a lot sooner and a lot more favorably than all the white knight antics in the world combined.
Don’t just throw money at her. That’s a crude way to get and hold her attention. Instead, simply tip her an appropriate amount when she does things that deserve it. A few big tips are splashy and awesome for her, but in the long run she’ll prefer reasonable tips at predictable times. This lets her know that she’s doing a good job and allows her to build up a comfortable relationship with you. She’ll learn that she can count on you. You know what her time is worth and you’re not going to show off for the other men in the chat by wowing them with big tips. Coming from you, it’s a sincere expression of approval and enjoyment. Sincerity is rare for a cam girl, and she’ll appreciate it.
Don’t Fall into the Trap of Buying Her Gifts
Gifts are a lot more personal than tips, and a lot of men rush to buy their special cam girl something amazing. However, even if she has an Amazon wishlist up, you might not want to buy something from it. Most cam girls only have things on it that they were going to buy for work anyway. Basically you’re paying for her uniform. There’s nothing wrong with that in theory; on the one hand, you can tell that she’s just saving her costs. She would probably spend a portion of her tips to buy these things for her shoes anyway, so you’re just cutting out the middle man. On the other hand, this is an obvious move to gain favor that isn’t actually going to do anything. She doesn’t really want the items on the list for herself; they’re all either things for her to wear on camera or that help with the persona she’s trying to create. She may not even really like them.
Encourage Tipping in Her Chat
If you want to win a place in her heart than tell other men to tip her. You can do this by getting the ball rolling with an appropriate tip of your own. When another man joins in, express surprise and awe. Repeat as often as needed for the men in the chat to start coming together and showering your favorite cam girl with the tokens she deserves. She’s going to remember that you were the man who encouraged them to tip so much when she’s cashing out at the end of the day and you can be pretty sure that a little something extra is going to find its way into your next private session as a thank you. Cam girls with a large following have one because they know how to treat their client’s right, not just thanks to the popularity of the camming site they use for sexy shows. You easily spot a scam site by observing their tipping process. Click here: http://thecamsitesguide.com/site/naked-review/ to read a sex cam site review.
Don’t Visit a Lot of Other Performers
This should go without saying, but you should like this cam girl enough that you only rarely visit other ladies. This isn’t to say that you can never enjoy watching another cam girl, but you should be devoting the vast majority of your time, energy, and money to one cam girl. That’s how she knows that she has a loyal customer on her hands. Not all cam performers on sties talk to each other, but enough do that you don’t want to risk splitting your attention between more than one main cam girl. This also means that the majority of your money can go towards tips and encouraging tipping for her. It’s that big a deal.
Make Requests That Break Monotony
If you want to earn pure emotional currency with a performer, give her a request that breaks the monotony. If she’s been doing anal for forty-five minutes, make your request to be something that definitely doesn’t have anything to do with anal. By the same token feel free to suggest that she change toys, change positions, or take on a new persona for sexy role playing. These things will liven up her day and bring a little enjoyment back to her life. She might love camming, but almost an hour of any sexual position or activity would turn bland and boring. You can always be the spice in her life with a little bit of care to time your requests so that it interrupts the long succession of sameness with something fresh.